Wednesday, August 02, 2006

nauseous and nasty

i took the day off on monday because i felt nauseous and nasty. i thought it would go away but at work on tuesday, my boss sent me home saying, "you look like you're about to puke and we don't need the office smelling." same thing happened today. i even missed class because i felt so nasty. anyway, after tons of sleeping, i'm feeling much much better tonight. thank God. i have a meeting in the morning that i cannot reschedule. there's a ton of work that i need to get to (now, people, i am not, i repeat, not pregnant. it's IMPOSSIBLE).

ok, i have a question. let me explain first. there's a guy that when i first met him, i developed a crush that was squashed when i discovered he had a girlfriend. anyway, we've been emailing and recently, we exchanged numbers. a while ago, a group of people, including he and i, were hanging out and it came up that we are friends. it was explicity stated. anyway, he called me on monday to say hi and see how i was feeling, and we ended up talking for an hour. i didn't realize it was an hour until i got off the phone. my roommates and another friend said that isn't typical of a friend and that emailing more than 4 times in a week is also not typical of a friend. the reason why? he has a girlfriend. now, i would say that we are just friends. i email all the time with a lot of people who have significant others. my friends say that's different because those friendships are established. well, i thought that my friendship with this guy is established. what do you think?

3 Comments:

At 11:15 AM , Blogger Tommyboy said...

i think you're overthinking it again, haha jk

but seriously, you know where you stand on the issue so i think that's all that really matters

if his intentions aren't just for friends, that's on him and his bad then, i guess you would have to stop talking to him at that point

but, it seems platonic so far, so i don't really see an issue with it

 
At 1:08 PM , Blogger Dana said...

it wasn't me this time, honest! my roommates had asked who i was on the phone with for so long. they thought it was georgbe but it wasn't so then more questions came and that's how the whole thing started.

 
At 2:24 PM , Blogger kay said...

you know my deal on platonic relationships so i'm going to stop right there.

 

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